Love is a garden that you have to have time to weed out and spread a lot of fertilizer on. (BTW: Manure burns the roots of love never letting it blossom into it’s fullest potential, not worth spreading. Patience and understanding makes love grow best.) I have been so focused on college, that I have put off my love life for the last 3 years. My last girlfriend was a psycho that took 3 months to break up with. She stalked me for a couple of years and I thought I was never going to get her out of my life. I don’t miss bad relationships (who would), but I miss the companionship and everything that comes with a good relationship, I don’t have time to be lonely, so it is no biggie.