Piotr Przemyslaw Karwasz

have my old crushes that rejected me INSANELY regret it!
Not worth to achieve 4 years ago

I am sure that some of them already regret it or at least remember the time they spent with me as happy moments in their lives.

There is no reason in punishing other people because they rejected me or they had better alternatives. It would be equivalent to force people to love you even if they don’t want to.

Obviously it is possible, since human psyche is hackable, but it takes away the pleasure of knowing that “she loves me of her own will”.

There is also no reason to care about people that don’t care about you. In many ways pure and real love is dead or never existed.

Jun 22, 2005, 02:00PM PDT | 2 cheers


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Dana is...bringing her own sunshine is truly blessed

I agree for the most part

True it is pointless to TRY and make someone regret something. Why waste your time!?

But do you really believe pure and real love is dead? I have to disagree with you there, it might be a rare find, but dead? No way….

Jun 22, 2005, 02:05PM PDT | Thread | Respond to this

Piotr Przemyslaw Karwasz

Almost dead

How much time could you love a person that doesn’t have any interest in you, before you decide that its pointless continuing to think about her?

This time could be extended if you don’t accept monogamy, but anyway it won’t be eternal (nor till someone’s death).

If the other person loves you in return there are many other reasons you “love” her (psychological support during bad days, physical help in the kitchen and home, sexual intercourses) and “love for the other’s sake” becomes only a (little) part of the relationship.

Jun 22, 2005, 02:18PM PDT | Thread | Respond to this

Dana is...bringing her own sunshine is truly blessed

Still don't agree

If you are in love with someone that does not love you then it’s not going to work, of course not. But that does not make love dead. IT just makes that relationship dead.

Love can be until death, between two caring people. It does exist. No love is perfect, but you have that ‘love til death’ bond with someone.

As time goes on of course you like having that person around, sexually, for support, etc. but that is not the only reasons, they are extentions of the true love. Love is a big picture, not just a fairy tale dream that has no obstacles to overcome. Love includes being around when one is sick, support for them when they are down, etc. but you do those things because you want to, not because you feel obligated. Sure some people do it out of obligation, but not all…

I just think (and know) that true pure love is not dead. While people still breathe, it will always be alive.

Jun 22, 2005, 02:25PM PDT | Thread | Respond to this

Piotr Przemyslaw Karwasz

Abuse of language

The main problem in our dispute is that the word love is one the the most most abused words of any language .

I think that in Greek terms it’s just the difference between ἀγάπη (the one I am referring to) and ἔρως (which should be reciprocal to fulfill itself).

Jun 22, 2005, 03:29PM PDT | Thread | Respond to this

Dana is...bringing her own sunshine is truly blessed

words

I agree that some people say love and do not mean it, they use the word for other reasons or too freely. But true, pure love is split into two kinds. the love for a spouse you are faithful to and in return they are faithful to you and you love one another unconditionally, you suffer and support through bad times, enjoy the great times and accept one anothers differences. then of course the love a parent and child should normally share, if under the “normal” circumstances…

But I thought you were saying you did not believe in true/pure love = a love two non related human beings can have for one another. I believe it does. Of course there are people that abuse it, but it does exist.

Jun 24, 2005, 12:06PM PDT | Thread | Respond to this

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