How I did it: I grew out my relaxer for 9 months, and then cut off the relaxed ends.  It was totally worth it.  My hair has never been healthier.  I'll never put another chemical in my hair again.

Lessons & tips: If you choose to grow out your hair, expect the relaxed part to break off.  It's just part of the process.  You'll eventually have to cut it off anyway.  Also, abandon the need to "grease" your scalp.  I haven't done it in years and I believe my hair is healthier because of it.  Using a comb is also overrated.  Most women with natural hair use their fingers to detangle.

Resources: Don't be fooled by the "black hair care products."  These products are just marketed to black people, but they contain the same ingredients as any other hair care products.  I have had success with shampoos and conditioners from Neutrogena and Fructis.  I have VERY thick, kinky hair...if they work on mine, it'll work on anyone.  Dr. Bronner's liquid soaps are also fantastic for the skin and hair.

Nov 02, 2008, 10:42AM PST | 5 comments | 3 cheers