How I did it: By swallowing my enormous pride and realizing that an apology is not simply an admission of some guilt on my part, but also the desire to end negativity/conflict/hurt.

By reminding myself that I am often wanting an apology, but not willing to give one.

Lessons & tips: Be humble and not think of an apology as an automatic admission of guilt and/or surrender, but as a way to end conflict.

Resources: a conscience :)

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Jul 11, 2010, 06:57AM PDT | 0 comments | 2 cheers