How to find myself in a situation where it makes sense and is in fact absolutely necessary to say "frankly my dear, I don't give a damn"
"Being imposed upon by an uninvited that will NOT stop talking. "
How I did it: "...oh you're locked out again? Well ok u may come in and wait - BUT- I am busy so if you're content watching t.v. - great! o k KELLY? (of course I sit down at my desk and Kelly begins to "blab, blab, blab")
I simply stood up, turned and faced him, stomped towards him, grabbed his coat, and said LOOK MAN - I've got to work & I can't do it w/ u here. ..so.. u gotta go"
but,but...blab, blab, blab..... I was already to the door w/ his coat - opened it and said sorry ill c ya later! well.. blab blab blab.... out the door he went.
Lessons & tips: I was nervous at first, he'd done this twice b4. He has a way of manipulating me into feeling sorry for him. I HAD 2 stand up or 'put the pants on' this is MY home.
Resources: Will power & confidence
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