This is just
fantastic, Lisa!
How I did it: I took lessons for almost six months. The teacher asked who would like to be in the recital and I raised my hand. I practiced like crazy, especially the week before. My co-performers and I pooled our resources, and bought each other uniforms and provided rehearsal space for extra practice time. Showed up at the theater, and took a deep breath before going on stage.
Lessons & tips: Have a wonderful teacher who can teach you in such a way where you are improving without even realizing it.
Resources: A Flamenco dance school with great teachers.
Flamenco skirt (about $45)
Flamenco shoes ($54-400)
Practice cd
CD player
Your discipline and commitment
Duende'