How to stop being jealous
How I did it: I don't know how else to say this but meeting the right person made me stop being jealous. He's the only guy I've ever had an intimate relationship with that I wasn't jealous of other girls when they talk to him.
He always lets me know that I'm the most important person to him and always will be. I am secure in the knowledge that he really does feel that way about me and I haven't been jealous of anyone since we started dating.
I can't quite give him all the credit, though, some of it comes from me. When I met him, I was finally at a place in my life where I was happy with what I was doing and who I was becoming. That's helped a lot to lessen the jealousy. I'm not worried about what other people have because I finally have what I want and want what I have.
It really did take twenty years because I can remember being jealous at age 10 and it didn't stop until I was 30.
