How I did it: Thanks to hard work, dedication, and most importantly the support of the important people in my life, I have gained and maintained personal independence.

I do not rely on anyone for money, shelter, food, company, or happiness.

I have my own life, and I am content with someone to share it with me. They will not make me happy- because I already am happy. Together we can share our happiness and be better for it, to lift each other when we are sad.

Life is better now than it ever has been. My things are surrounding me, my personality is on display, my sanctuary has been made, and I can share my oasis or be lost in solitude within it. The choice is mine, to cherish and wield.

Lessons & tips: Be strong about what YOU want. Be even strong about what you NEED. Be honest with yourself, and others, about limitations and requirements. It's not fair to others, no only yourself, to give and compromise everything.

---

Sep 13, 2010, 10:57AM PDT | 2 comments | 5 cheers