How I did it: Before even thinking of finding the right person to marry, you need to be ready yourself. You need to be mature enough. You can't still be playing mind games, or be craved for attention.. or trying to manipulate situations. You need to understand how the other sex works, and you need to realize that we're all human. Look for a friend first.. I know it sounds cliche, but in the end it will be the most important. You have to get along and make each other smile. It should come naturally.. not after a few dates of asking questions awkwardly to get to know each other. Don't try to make something out of a relationship when it's just not there and convince yourself that there is something there just bc you're getting tired of waiting.. Don't be so eager and desperate. Enjoy life and all it has to offer.. eventually someone will come along and join you in those things.. don't make your life all about finding someone. Just be yourself. The real you will come out eventually, so you'll want someone who will love that person.

Lessons & tips: be cool

Sep 16, 2010, 12:45AM PDT | 1 comment | 12 cheers