How I did it: Ok so not the exact chronology of my life, but I basically admitted my deepest darkest secrets to some people, and stuff in my life before then that caused issues or were caused by issues. It's hard to give advice for this because it was sooo incredibly hard that I thought I couldn't do it, and it's only by the grace of God that I was able to. And it took me forever. I am so glad I did this because it helped put things in perspective, hear a truth contrary to the lies I was believing, and establish much deeper relationships.

Lessons & tips: Please, do not do this in any way other than in person. And if you do do it in writing, online, etc. (like I did at first), you should definitely make sure you talk to someone in person, because it is so different. You need that kind of emotional connection you get from physically being in another's presence, maintaining eye contact and that sort of thing.

Resources: God

Oct 06, 2010, 08:23PM PDT | 0 comments | 4 cheers