How I did it: By ultimately realising that I was & still am a more mature, positive all round individual than the few people who had caused me pain, sleepless nights, tears or hurt in some way. I have totally grown as a person & my self esteem is brilliant know. I have confidence, a stronger faith & aim to truly find happiness.

Lessons & tips: Do not blame yourself or constantly go over it again & again in your mind- it doesn't do anyone any good- especially you!!! There is something else just round the corner :)

Resources: The understanding, support, help & advice of my lovely friends. My family (unknowlingly most of the time).

It's called a breakup because it's broken & He's just not that into you. (Awesome books)  Music- playlists on my iPod help me thru tough times.

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Jan 17, 2011, 03:23PM PST | 0 comments | 4 cheers