How to quit enabling
It made me 
"It's about accepting who you are and where you are in your life, not about anyone else "
How I did it: It's true what the alcoholics say.....God grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, courage to change the things I can and wisdom to know the difference. I had to accept that there were things I could not change, like my children and they way they chose to live their lives. Giving in, caving, helping, enabling did not bring me more love or more dedication. It just brought more pain and more heartache. Accepting that there are things I cannot change and cannot control has freed me to be who I am.
Lessons & tips: Let go.....that's it just let go......
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