How I did it: I used to have a lot of thoughts about what other people might think of me regarding what i think, say and do. I tried to be nice to people and i don't even know why i do that sometimes. Is it because i like it or is it because there is something i am afraid from them and i keep on carried away by all the thinking of what others might think of me. Sometimes i really feel my connection with the life i have and i feel that what ever is happening in this life is only between me and God. But still i couldn't let go of the thinking of others. I blamed the society, our tradition, our interactions and way of living, our religions, our politics and everything but still i was still caught and never been free to myself and be able to feel and experience my freewill without the thinking of what others might be thinking about me and what i should appear to be.
Lately I moved to another country for education and i completely moved to a new territory. Everything become so new and different and i thought to myself i also have to create myself as new. to experience myself as new so i start to avoid all the things that i don't like. i start noticing things and it gets really interesting because really nobody cares in here. no body cares except you. it doesn't matter to anyone else what you do or what you don't, you are the only one who is going to care for that. So when i got into the thinking of what others might be thinking i just say to myself, no body cares for that so i stop it and i kind of get used to it and now its becoming like a habit. Ya No body cares except you. that is why you are here!!! to care for yourself and not the rest!!!
Lessons & tips: - whatever you think, say or do; you are right. Just believe in it.
- Don't judge; if you judge you will feel being judged too
- Love as much people as you can
- Be easy going and open minded
- Don't be obsessed on anything
- Avoid stress and anxiety