How I did it: I realized recently that I had no idea what I really liked, what I really thought about various things, and what I really stood for.  That's a scary thing, when you are a parent.  How can you set a good example, teach children various things, when you're not even sure what you think or like?

Lessons & tips:

•  Lists can help - list movies you like, colors, scents, tastes, foods, actors/actresses, genres of movies or books and so on
•  Write in a journal.  Ask yourself questions, think about it for a little while, and then write without stopping.
• Think about things that bother you.  Why do they bother you?  Is there something in you that it grates on?  Does it remind you of a trait in yourself?  
• Ask your friends what they think your strong suits are.  Do you agree?  What do YOU think you are good at? 
• Take a look at flaws too.  It really can be a good, healthy thing to look at areas within yourself that need improvement - then take a small step toward that goal. 

Resources:

• Books on keeping a journal (_Journal to the Self_ by Kathleen Adams is wonderful)
• The internet can be a source of good ideas on keeping a journal 
• Good, trusted, close friends 

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