How to find the someone that I can't live without, rather than just someone I can live with by Aloha50

"Took a heck of a long time!"

How I did it: Found someone who became my friend first and who enjoys doing the same things that I do. Very important because we are sharing in each other's lives.  We are two peas in a pod. 

Of course there are differences, but it's important to view those differences as a different perspective, and not as a bad thing. 

I used to think that being "nice" was enough (I'm "nice" and he's "nice" so why isn't he calling me?)....BIG MISTAKE!!....you truly have to have similar interests. 

And you must have fun and laugh as often as possible.  A sense of humor is the key!


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Nov 10, 01:21PM PST | 1 comment | 12 cheers


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Aloha50 I trust the Universe!

A goal like this will never

truly be complete. It’s like being on a diet. Do we actually arrive anywhere? Nope…. just work on not gaining the weight back.

Relationships are hard work!

We had an…ahem…. “difference of opinion” yesterday when he became upset that while watching a Netflix movie, I sent my son a text (about the movie). He said that it was “our time.” Helloooo, I am constantly with him! It is ALWAYS “our time!” Then he said he is jealous of the relationship that I have with my son and that he doesn’t have that with his daughter. Then do something to change that! (I didn’t say that to him, I just told him that I would never be upset if he text or called his daughter).

I have no idea how to deal with this, but I’m sure it will come to me. I am certain though that no one will come between my son and I, especially since I give so much of my time to my BF and text my son maybe a couple of times a day.

Sigh…..

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