How I did it: I have been single for about 2 years - since breaking up with my last boyfriend about 2 and a half years ago and, characteristically, sleeping with two of my other exes within the same week about 2 years ago (I always go back, why?) Anyway, I met this guy at a party about a year ago. He was a friend of a girl I used to work with - actually he was her new boss - and i wanted to sleep with him then. I tried to pull him that night, we texted a bit after a small kiss goodbye and then the texts continued. We were both too busy, too this, too that. We had one date where I kissed him out of the blue to just.try.and.get.some and he started to "feel ill" and went home. I was worried it was a blow-off. Anyway, we continued texting blah blah and I was sick of the texting and it not going anywhere, so I told him so. Then he text me at Christmas saying hey, and eventually we met up and I went to his (I think he was drunk) and there was fooling around etc. It was nice actually. But not...finished. So I went back a day or so later, he wasn't drunk and I had to talk to his housemates all sitting around, (boring when all i wanted was sex!) Then there was sex etc. Boring-er. It was unfulfilling because I don't like him that much. I guess my heart wasn't in it.

Lessons & tips: Lesson re-learnt: only sleep with people you LIKE ALOT!

Feb 07, 2012, 06:56AM PST | 0 comments