"feel blessed :)"
How I did it: The first thing I did was to make a list of all things I wanted to get a "makeover" on.They came down to my image,spirituality,life focus,communication and people.
Then I started working with an aim to work out the best for every thing I had.It has been a briliant time.
Inorder to get toxic people out,I just found out which people made me happy and stuck with them more.For spirituality I just started praying.I managed to do a lot of goals from my life list like get a job,and learn new things.My communication has improved based on the principle,I want happiness out of the time I spend with them and love in my heart.And that when I don't agree and don't know what to say I should just listen.And nobody is perfect.That's why its necessary to know everyone and gain support from everyone who likes me.
In the end of this process I realized that all I am looking for in life is love,in all its forms,in spirit,in mentality,in humanity,in a lover,as a friend,from family to family,in work and as a goal to chase in life.And that was amazing to know.
Lessons & tips: Give yourself time to comeback when you are stuck in a situation
Believe in yourself and focus on the light,but be a realist on where you are and what would be the best solution for it.My mindset has changed since I started the list.
Resources: 43 things website
Lot of amazing people in my life :)
a decent amount of cash :D
journalling and keeping note of goals to do.
deflecting negativity,laziness and impatience as much as possible.enjoying life is a must and a need.everything comes later.but the word is fun not saturation.