How to find my soulmate by amayana

"He's the love of my life and will always be."

How I did it: My soulmate, my best friend. I will not marry him nor love him as a husband or a boyfriend but as a brother. A lot of people consider a soulmate being the person you could be with the rest of your life. That is true, but you're not always forced to do so by marrying that person. We could be a couple, but doing that would destroy everything, I think. It would lose all its peculiar effect. And yes, he's the love of my life and will always be. I'm pretty sure that the reason why there will be no one I could love more than him is because we will always be friends. Being his girlfriend or partner would make me love him less after some time.

Lessons & tips: “Few are those who see with their own eyes and feel with their own hearts.”
- Albert Einstein


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Sep 14, 2008, 06:20PM PDT | 4 comments | 21 cheers


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Oct 07, 2008, 09:34AM PDT

mrsuperhip is

:D

Your post was something amazing and exactly what I needed to hear. I lucked out and stumbled across it at just the right moment. I really do have someone like this in my life and was blind to it.

I get caught up with what I think a ‘Soulmate’ should mean or represent. In reality it can truly have nothing to do with physical love but through intimate understanding, respect and affection.

Thank you for sharing this.

Dec 19, 2008, 09:30PM PST | Thread | Respond to this 1 cheer

amayana

Thanks

I’m glad that I could help you somehow! I believe that, mostly, we’re blind to the ones who actually care most about us.
Believe me, it took me quite a long time to realise that myself!

Dec 20, 2008, 05:52PM PST | Respond to this

rooh

happy for u.
yet,
how can one stand being away from the other part of oneself?

Sep 10, 08:24AM PDT | Thread | Respond to this

amayana

I think everyone has to find out for themselves whether you can or cannot stand being away from your ‘other half’. However, sometimes you don’t even have that choice.

Sep 10, 11:04PM PDT | Respond to this


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