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How to be more confident by abigail2004

"'You more than anybody else deserve your love and affection'"

How I did it: I said, I realised,

How I treated myself
What I thought of myself
What I said about myself in front of others
Deliberately dumbing myself down for others
 Had so much effect on my confidence, my self-esteem
Confidence, you see, has to be laced with elegance.
The messages I told myself, how I treated myself set the standard in which people treated me which then changed how I thought about myself which made me less confident.
It was all a viscous cycle and to break this cycle, I realised that I've got to accept myself unconditionally. The world as I see it is a reflection of how I view myself.When I saw myself as hopeless, ugly, defenceless, my world was that way
When I saw myself as beautiful, resourceful, kind-hearted and never-ending, my world appeared to be that way..
Opportunities were everywhere and it was much more easier to drop people who made me feel less than what I believed myself to be

Lessons & tips:

  1. Realise that you and your potential are limitless
  2. What other people say/do cannot effect you unless you allow it to be so 
  3. Separate yourself from your actions and work you produce 
  4. Drop negative people who  want to do nothing but cause you harm; people doing something with their lives and are confident don't have time to hate on others
  5. Don't take pride in hurting others, your confidence has to be a stable horse, only dependent on what you internally believe 
  6. Create, create and keep creating 
  7. Do things you love doing and spend time/ money on yourself each and everyday 
  8. Challenge yourself and only yourself 

Resources: Marcandangel


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Jun 15, 2012, 03:16PM PDT | 3 comments | 12 cheers


Comments:

LifeRenewed is blessed.....

Cheers...

Good for you! You may also want try reading, “What To Say When You Talk To Yourself” by Shad Helmstetter….

It’s one of those life changing kinda books :)
Wishing you safe travels on your path of life…

Jun 15, 2012, 07:41PM PDT | Thread | Respond to this 2 cheers

abigail2004

I’ll check it out!
Thank you :)

Jun 16, 2012, 05:24AM PDT | Respond to this

skittledragon has ordered my list according to importance.

I'm out of cheers for today...

But what you’ve written struck a chord with me. I feel inspired to keep working hard on my confidence issues :)

Edit: just realised I already cheered you haha.

Jun 24, 2012, 01:45PM PDT | Respond to this 1 cheer


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