How to move back to San Diego
How I did it: Fate threw me back into RI long ago, and now it appears fate is taking me back. My dad's house got foreclosed on, I'm not moving ahead in my film career, kind of hit a plateau there, and the club night I built from the ground up is about to get dicked over.
As it were, I'm scheduled to leave for Hawaii on the 19th for just over a week and then scheduled to land in San Diego on the 28th. My photographer, who is taking me on the trip, had purposely gotten me a later flight so i could have ten days with my people in San Diego.
After the above things all inraveled in a span of 48 hours, I immediately called the friend I was to be staying with declaring I wish I could just stay there as there is no longer a home or anything really, aside from friends, to come home to.
As fate would have it, for the first time in all the years I have known her, she actually needs the financial assistance and also the friend. So I will in fact not be returning to RI. I also have two friends here, one being my current roommate, who want to move out there in a month once I am more stabilized, thus providing a secure network and living situation--a MUST in San Diego.
I wish I felt more prepared and had more in my bank roll, but I truly feel this is for the best as all the things I excel in the most are more abundant there and now I have much more under my belt than I did the first time around.
Lessons & tips: Don't wait for things to fall into place. MAKE them fall into place. Spend your life waiting and next thing you know your youth and energy are gone.
Also, LISTEN when fate starts screaming at you. I almost let this opportunity slip. Though I feel a little insecure, I don't think I'm meanty to wait anymore. I feel I have accomplihed and grown as much as possible in RI. The time is NOW.
Resources: Friends
