How I did it: I say six months, cause I don't know what else to put. With each person it's different.

I think the number one thing to do is to take some time apart. You need time to solidify the divide, first of all. Second of all, you need to remember who you are apart from them... and see them as they are as well. If you remain close to them after a break up, more than likely, you'll either end up with them again, (just continuing in a vicious cycle), or you'll never truly see who they are.
Don't block out why you like them, but by all means, don't block out why it didn't work.
It's a hard thing to break, but when you do, and you stay amiable and realize it was for the best... it really is worth it.

You were friends for a reason. Hopefully you can remain friends who just realize a relationship won't work.

Good luck!

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Nov 18, 2008, 08:44AM PST | 0 comments | 2 cheers