How to get a divorce by warmjets

"Give up the blame game and move on."

How I did it: It was a simple act of being honest with my partner and overcoming the fear of the unknown.

I loved my wife - she was brilliant and I think she loved me. But there was no fire between us - it was all pretty much based on cold calculations about money, possessions and goals.

Lessons & tips: Be kind but brutally honest. Stop lying. 

Resources:

  • Couples counseling
  • Online Forums 
  • Friends and Family 


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Nov 22, 2008, 10:42AM PST | 3 comments | 3 cheers


Comments:

alisonlee is learning how to bake muffins!

Yes, you really need to stop blaming each other. It really takes two to clap.

I think it is a great thing that you have learnt to move on.Sometimes letting go is what all of us need in order to find real happiness for ourselves and the ones we love!

:)

Nov 22, 2008, 11:00AM PST | Thread | Respond to this

warmjets here they come.

Thank you.

I think I may have sounded a bit cold and calculated about my divorce in my “How to”. There is a lot more to getting a divorce than I realized. It was easy getting married – too easy. For me, getting married should have been a lot more challenging. That it was so easy, was probably the first sign that it wasn’t going to last.

Nov 23, 2008, 12:49PM PST | Respond to this

AnaSoraya is thinking about whats next!

Well...

Congrats with your new life :)

Mar 17, 09:34PM PDT | Respond to this


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