How I did it: Well, in reality it took me more than just getting out of the door. The outside world can be rather intimidating when you have gotten used to the security of your own home, at least I felt like that for a very long time (and still do, but rarely anymore). When the walls seemed to be closing in on me too much I realised I just had to get out, go somewhere, anywhere, explore new (and old) places, do something to get out of the house and I think that was the 'spark' that got me moving, and I assume it's different for everybody. In the end, when you want it badly enough, nothing will stop you getting out of the house more, it's all in your head, I swear. ;)

Lessons & tips: If it feels too intimidating to go on your own, take a friend with you, do something together. Starting out with someone else is always easier than doing it on your own, though in my opinion it'd be wise to also get used to going out alone, most likely there won't always be someone there to accompany you. Getting out of the house doesn't have to mean you need to do something spectacular or big, just taking a stroll near your home is enough, at least you're out and that's what really matters.

Resources:

• friends
• different kinds of events all around the city (a great reason to get out and experience something new)
• figuring out my interests and fulfilling them

Sep 10, 2008, 04:11AM PDT | 3 comments | 11 cheers