How to stop being depressed by Kaori223

"Okay okay okay...I am feeling much better now."

How I did it: I was depressed because my ex fiance betrayled me but somehow  I still wanted to put it all behind us and continue our relationship. But he choose the easy way and became a loser. I certainly dont want to spend my time with someone who does not respect me, treat me and love me right. First few weeks was really bad. I couldnt eat, sleep, go out or do anything. I just stayed  in my room all day and cried. But then I realize that I have been wasting my time by being depressed about something I can never fix or change. So I simply quit doing it. My mom and friends helped me a lot to make me feel alive and needed again.

Lessons & tips: Its hard to fully trust other people but I found a few people who I can trust I think. I have learnt a lot from this whole thing and it will only be my strength for the rest of my life.


 

Dec 02, 2008, 05:04AM PST | 4 comments | 2 cheers


Comments:

melahhhh is happy :)

Congrats

Congrats on making in threw,
i know it hurts and you dont realise how strong you were to make it threw that.
:)
Hope You find better next time.
Mel

Dec 02, 2008, 05:35AM PST | Thread | Respond to this

Kaori223 is feeling a little bit better day by day.

Thanks!!

Thank you so much for your kindness! Yeah it hurts and destroyed my heart once but I asked myself “hey, is this worth it?! am I that weak?!” then I could take a big step from this thing. yeah I really hope I will find someone better next time! Thanks again, Mel!
Kaori

Dec 02, 2008, 07:20PM PST | Respond to this

free1983

It amazes me ...

I mean when this kind of things happen, the person doing the bad and shameful thing doesn’t suffer as much as the one who was honest and loving … Kaori, I’m so glad for you to be over it …. and you should tell yourself that you gave it your all and if he didn’t meet you half way, then its his loss :))

Dec 14, 2008, 10:43PM PST | Thread | Respond to this

Kaori223 is feeling a little bit better day by day.

Thank you!

Thank you so much, free 1983! Yeah I have stopped being depressed but sometimes I still find it difficult to live without being with my ex…but I am trying so hard not to think about him right now so someday I can maybe over come this completely! I am looking forward to have the day that I can truly say “I am over him!” from the bottom of my heart. I want to believe that I deserve better:)
Thanks for your kindnessā˜†
Kaori

Dec 15, 2008, 03:32AM PST | Respond to this


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