How I did it: i actually had sex with my roommate.  we had started dating a few weeks before, and we had been living together for 7 months.  we both knew it was right, but it wasn't the greatest experience ever.  sex sucks at first, and you can't expect too much from the first time, especially if you are particularly tight in that area and rip, it hurts a bit.  for a lot of people, it takes awhile to find positions where both of you will orgasm.  be patient, do it with the right person, and don't fantasize too much about the glamour.  you'll only be disappointed, when it can be a beautiful experience nonetheless.

Lessons & tips: use lots of lube the first time, and don't be afraid to say what you're feeling.  never pretend like you're enjoying something because you think you should be!  this act is for both of you to do together, and for both of you to enjoy!  make sure you are not pressured into it, and always be safe!

Resources: we use Trojan condoms.  www.cosmopolitan.com has some sex positions if you're feeling uncreative.

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Dec 08, 2008, 03:04PM PST | 0 comments | 1 cheer