That is fabulous. Screw what other people think. At the end of the day, it is your opinion of you which matters. If you try to change for others, you will always be unhappy with the results. You will be a watered down version of yourself. Always take care of your star player (you)! If you haven’t seen Katt Willliams “Pimpin pimpin” I highly suggest you watch it. I watched the whole thing on youtube. Just type in his name and the title, and it will pull up segments in numerical order. Not only is it HILARIOUS!, but he talks about the star player thing. Congrats to you for being you!
How to be myself
How I did it: Really sometimes all it takes is to finally realize and understand who you are, and how to go about being yourself.
It took me a while to get to this point, but I am happy I did. I finally found that I won't be happy as long as I am trying to change myself for other people, or act a certain way so that others will accept me.
I had days where I felt so confident and so damn "right" in my own skin no matter what anyone had to say about it. Those are the days I would rather have, over changing for other people that don't even matter to me.
I noticed that when I was alone, I wasn't at all happy with who I was after pleasing everyone besides myself. I can finally say now, I am what I am. Thanks to my mother, and my wonderful aunt (RIP).
Lessons & tips: Honestly, all you can do and have to do is continue accepting who you are and what your interests are in life.
Resources: My mind.
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