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How to fall in love and get married.
It made me
extremely happy 
"wonderful and liberating"
How I did it: well mine was arranged but its better than a love marriage whch it later on turned out to be. lol
it took me 1 and a half year to finally say yes.. but I'm so glad that i DID.but let me tell u. love feels good and so bad sometimes. as its totally not like whats showed in the movies or what we read in danielle steele's novels. its all about commitment and responsibility. but life gets asy when u make up your mind that this is THE person for me.
Lessons & tips: always discuss everythinng with eachother.. if one is angry the other one should be understanding.
Resources: COMMUNICATION is the key to a good relationship. well mine was a long distance one so phone calls, voice chats, text messages, emails. the goal is to keep one another updated.
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Hey Homyagha,
I believe love is something that you build not find. As long as there are some compatibilities, we can create love in each other. It’s not who you find but what you do when you find someone.
Good luck!
homyagha settled after getting married
thats true but like u mentioned some compatibility shud be there otherwise u cant build a lasting n loving relationship on your own. it depends on finding the right person and building a strong relationship.. but the last line u wrote is really wise.
shirleynature Love, Peace & Happiness...& buying cardboard for my vision board !
love...
I really am working at being in love and believe in this what you write in that you need to have similarities & compatibility as well because no matter how much you work at something if the person you meet isn’t ‘the one’ for you then I don’t think it can work.
I sort of believe in ‘soulmates’ and that there is one special person there for everyone and that there can be many ‘soulmates’ throughout ones life, even if it is to help each other in each others lives to be in love with another. I just am not certain that love can be with ‘anyone’ as long as you just work on or build on the love with that person because the ‘chemistry’ isn’t there with everyone you meet in terms of being in love with another. But building on love with that one person you are with and feel chemistry with, more than likely will make the relationship last and to be very strong.
Yes, definitely communication and understanding one another during disagreements or when long distance relationships are being experienced. I had a long distance relationship and we had never met, yet it lasted over a year and I know in my heart that you can’t uphold a relationship without being physically together / communicative with the other because the love fades if you aren’t together…...So verbal and physical expressions of love are also really important to stay in or be in love with someone.
Thankyou for your wonderful love insights…and much love and happiness to you and your partner. :)
homyagha settled after getting married
thank you. dear.. i wish you get what u truly want and hope for.thats the best thing of all. sometimes v chase ppl that r just ok but eventually get someone who just fades all the others (previous ones) like they never existed. i believe in soulmates too and there is more than one person if things dont work out.
above all friendship is the key to any good relationship.
wishing and hoping for the absolute best for u.
God BLESS u!!!
shirleynature Love, Peace & Happiness...& buying cardboard for my vision board !
Oh Thankyou.
Thanking you very much…yes, I really believe in being and having a strong friendship with your love too and everything else you wrote as well :) ....... Oh, sorry, I just re read my comment and I didn’t mean that you couldn’t uphold a relationship without being physically together; what I meant was for me in this relationship was that we had never met ‘in person’ yet & had formed a relationship via the internet/dating web site and we had learnt about each other through letters, emails, phone calls but never in person and that is why I think it didn’t work for us because of the distance and not having been able to meet each other.
Thankyou for your lovely advice and blessings.
Many kindest regards and blessings too…
Kindest regards
Shirley :)
