How to marrying the man of my dreams
How I did it: I focused on my career and my spirituality and God placed my soul mate in my life when the timing was ready for the both of us. We started out as friends and then our common interests and attraction for one another turned out to be something that only would exist in my wildest dreams....blissful and captivating. He is my everything.
Then we dated for about a 1 year before he proposed and then we were engaged for an addition a year and then got married this past year.
Lessons & tips: Always be true to yourself, I always tell my friends to date themselves before they begin to date anyone else. In other words,get to know what makes you happy without the help of dating someone, don't let anyone "complete" you and find ways that will help you become authentic. I learned this lesson the hard way and I was looking back at all my dating mistakes. I also recommend that you don't change for anyone and once again always be true to yourself. Lastly,
make a list of characteristics that you are looking for in an ideal mate, I made one and it worked for me.
Resources: The library has a lot of free tools of self help books, dating ideas, search online of different community events, volunteer groups and other possible avenues that can help you find your ideal mate, I don't recommend finding him or her at the local bar, at least not for a long term commitment.
