How to let go of the delusion that it was real love.
It made me 
"It was so painful but then time started to pass and I got busy. Days went, then weeks before I realized that I hadn't thought about him. It was a big relationship in my life---but now I know it wasn't THE relationship of my life."
How I did it: I went to the gym. I jumped into work and received TWO promotions in one year! I'm now moving from Boston to LA with my company to open up an office and manage a team! I started to paint. I promised I would read more. And I stuck to my mini-goals for myself. I STOPPED going out. It was fun at first but then I realized it was making me miss him more because drinking and dancing with dudes that are in it for one thing made me feel cheap. I did things for me and stopped trying to impress anyone except myself.
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