How I did it: when I was a little girl, maybe as 4 yrs old, I have realized that I would do most of things alone, so maybe from then on, subconsciously I began to build my inside thoughts, I began to learn independant. My parents didn't say too much to us about our life or thinking or study, they just let us live like we are, many thanks to them. With time pass by, I know that I have to be myself, to stand by myself, to live for myself, slowly, I care about others' judge less,  and because my parents couldn't tell me much about how to deal with new things, they don't have much experience of communication, working with many people.... I have to control everything and get a decision by myself, so with experience more, think more to find who I am, what I want to do, then I am always be myself.

Lessons & tips: Everyone can be themselves as long as they try.

Resources: myself

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Jan 16, 2009, 09:40PM PST | 2 comments | 6 cheers