How I did it: One random boring night some friends and i where sitting in the park in my home town and somehow we decided it would be a great idea to go to the cemetery. I was like whatever so we walked out of town to the cemetery. It was moonlight so we could see well. When we got there everyone was freaking out and hugging each other. My big brave boyfriend wouldn't go in and after visiting my relies and laughing at all the freaked out people i went back to him and he was crying. He's really scared of ghosts where as even though i believe, it truly didn't bother me. I don't get why everyone was scared ?? It would have been awesome if we DID see something. Anyway we left then and my boyfriend is still freaked however i think maybe hes better at sensing ghosts or something than me. He used to come up with weird stories about talking to people in there house and stuff when he was a kid.
Lessons & tips: Don't take people who you know are petrified of ghosts to a cemetry at midnight. Its scaring.
Once on a trip with another couple to North Carolina, we climbed the fence of an old Confederate cemetary in the middle of the night and prowled around. The men were freaked but the other gal and I felt really calmed and sort of welcomed. Would definitely do it again.
Your boyfriend is clearly a douchebag of the highest caliber. You should have smashed his skull against a granite tombstone to teach him a lesson.
That was a really mean thing to say, and not necessary.
I disagree, it was very helpful. Next time she’s there with him and he starts to cry my advice will subconsciously kick in and hopefully she will follow through.
You surprise me with the violence of your advice. In other comments I’ve seen you be sarcastic, even acidic, but I always thought there was a decent reason behind what you said. I thought you were trying to get people to think, when they had only been emotional and irrational.
Your advice in this case is irrational. It seems that you are calling her boyfriend a very mean name, and suggesting that he deserves an injury, just because he is afraid of the graveyard. Hurting him will not likely cure him of his fear, however, nor will it help this girl have a better relationship. She may be fine with the fact that he has this particular fear. Having a good relationship is all about learning to deal with each others’ faults, not about power-plays, violence, and trying to control other people into being “perfect”.
I have to believe that you were only trying to be funny, but it wasn’t funny. It was uncalled-for and rude, and didn’t even have a good point.
It is sociopathic to think it’s okay to inflict violence on a man just because he cries or feels afraid of something. I hope that’s not who you really are.
I get the impression from his posts that he’s this overly macho guy who has a problem with men crying, and probably a lot of other problems in his quest to be Mr. He-Man as well.
I know 2 wrongs don’t make a right, but guys like that almost make me want to do something to make them cry, or put a hurt on them, so they can know how it feels to be in the other person’s shoes.
Macho men make me want to spit and puke.
Thank you, I find acidic very fitting.
She specified he was scared of ghosts not the graveyard itself. She goes on to describe him as schizophrenic in the last few lines without using that word, instead she rationalizes his behavior because he is better at “sensing ghosts”.
My final evidence is that the brim of his baseball cap is straight and he kept the sticker on it. Clearly a douchebag of the highest caliber. No further deliberations.
And then there was four ... young enough to know better; too old to care
Very well spoken Crunchy Bread.
