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How to forget her
"I dated a girl for 3 years. After first semester of college we broke up and I was pretty upset for a long time. The following summer I became less dependent on girlfriends and more dependent on myself."
How I did it: Look at yourself and make sure you aren't being pathetic.
Figure out things you like to do. If you like music, go out to see a show. If you like drawing, go get some new art supplies or learn a new style and explore it.
You'll have to do these things alone and it sucks, but just remember and keep in mind there might be someone there doing the EXACT same thing as you.
Every time you go out don't think about it as meeting someone new or meeting your next "one"
But even if that is all you think about, you want someone who likes the same things as you and someone who isn't clingy nor do you want to be clingy.
If you go out and do things that you want to do, you will meet somebody who equally enjoys doing the same things as you.
Lessons & tips: Depending on how long you dated a certain person and what your relationship was like times are different. But it took me around a year to really get over all this.
Resources: Supporting yourself.
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