How I did it: Try to remain on good terms with your ex
(only if that is possible)
If he’s violent obviously that won’t work.
Allow time for information to sink in (that it’s over) that took 2 years!
Once he was out I found a solicitor and started my proceedings.
2 years down the line I asked him to sign… the divorce papers he said no..
I only had 6 months to wait for the Decree Absolute :)
Patience... Time really does fly by!

Lessons & tips:

• Because I like peace...I had to let time pass.
• In order for me to get a divorce,  without his consent. (I waited 4 years)

Resources: A Good Solicitor (Sympathetic)
Good Family
Good Friends (Not the time wasting type)
The type that has your back when your soul needs to heal.

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Feb 20, 2009, 08:01AM PST | 0 comments | 2 cheers