How to not frighten the next guy who comes into my life with my big lifetime projects
It made me
feel loved 
"I guess he wasn't afraid, because we moved in together in July, and got engaged in November. We'll get married in 2010!"
How I did it: I took it slowly and didn't get too crazy, I guess. When I talked about marriage and kids I made it clear I wasn't in a hurry and most of all what I really wanted was him! :)
