How to get over my ex by CathrineD

"I started doing things for me, i gained so much confidence, i didn't need someone else to feel good!"

How I did it: Really i kept myself busy and everytime i would cry i would think "if somthing made me this sad it had to have been good" i know ill find someone else. The feeling would pass. so i kept myself busy.

Lessons & tips: i can't say i didn't think about him, but when i did i thought about the happy things and how i'll find someone else who will do the things i liked and more for me. i didn't know he was coming into my life, so i'll just have to wait until someone else unexpected does. Also, i kept myslef busy. i got a job in the evening so i would stop sulking and made a really good friend (that was by luck) but i did start putting myself out to be open to having more friends. Then i started hanging out with him. And when someone would ask me on a date i would just go for funit took off so much pressure and it would end up being really fun.


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Mar 10, 04:44PM PDT | 3 comments | 5 cheers


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Dinoz

gr8 job

these are exactly the stepsof getting over an ex! u did the right job girl! congrats :)

Mar 10, 04:50PM PDT | Thread | Respond to this

CathrineD loves life in New Zealand

thanks mate

it just took me long enough! glad to know i wasn’t a sulking twat 8 )

Mar 10, 05:11PM PDT | Respond to this 1 cheer

fhperez is trying to get over a loved one

wow.. great point

That’s a way to stay positive… Especially on a hard situation..

I am going through the same thing and at times I think about the lies the deceit, the cheating… and at times I see a beautiful movie, listen to a beautiful song and I am just reminded of the good times. Overall I am a positive person, so this was like an eye opener! Thanks for sharing this!

Mar 13, 07:57AM PDT | Respond to this


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