How to stop caring what other people think of me by hazelwind

How I did it: For me, it was as simple as finding the root of the problem, my self confidence, and working to resolve it. It was one of the best changes I've ever made. I'd definately recommend everyone learning this. It gives you so much more freedom. Now, I can order food at a restaurant without freaking out about the server looking at me, or raise my hand in class to give an answer. If someone makes a comment about how I look, I can -honestly- shrug it off.


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Sep 27, 2008, 05:44PM PDT | 11 comments | 78 cheers


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sexyretard trying in vain to leave the present life!

good...

happy for you!

Sep 27, 2008, 05:59PM PDT | Respond to this

mark

self confidence

i think thats my biggest problem also. i don’t mind being by myself but sometimes being by myself too much gets to me. i don’t want to do certain things by myself. i see people who are annoying , obnoxious , self centered, ect. ( none of which i think i am )get girl friends, have many friends and i wonder why don’t i have more self confidence to do things by myself. i don’t i’m better than everyone but i do think i’m better than some people who seem to have things they don’t deserve.

forgive me if i ramble on. i just felt like getting it out.

Oct 03, 2008, 08:20PM PDT | Respond to this 1 cheer

mark

congrats

overall i really don’t care what other think becuz its not worth it.

Oct 03, 2008, 08:23PM PDT | Respond to this

birdsinmyhead

be proud of yourself

that used to be my problem also. now, i realiced that’s not worth it. i think thats the best thing you could do.

Oct 07, 2008, 08:16AM PDT | Respond to this 1 cheer

Donderjaeger Is going to research "family systems theory"...someday!! LOL

I'll take it one step further...

I used to be a lot more concerned about my privacy. These days, I lay it out there a lot more. At one point, I though people might use things against me, and I imprisoned myself; now, I know that when being open about myself makes me free.

Of course, it helps that I don’t care what people think about me… :c)

Nov 04, 2008, 11:46PM PST | Respond to this 1 cheer

Saoirse [Freedom] The Pursuit of Happiness

kudos to you =D

I really wish i could do the same. I get so anxious and paranoid about this, and it ends up getting me depressed.
I’m really happy for you though! Well done!!!!!!!!

=D

Nov 07, 2008, 05:28AM PST | Thread | Respond to this

fyfy418 study hard in library

learn from you.

i think i can learn from you.

Nov 08, 2008, 05:20AM PST | Respond to this

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Nov 08, 2008, 05:23AM PST

Vitamita

Good for you!

Dec 25, 2008, 04:38PM PST | Thread | Respond to this

NekoLover

lol xD

Oct 12, 05:16AM PDT | Respond to this

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Apr 26, 04:12AM PDT

pettybo

Good for you girl! It’s tough sometimes but caring more about what you think about yourself, the type of person you’d want to be friends with,care about and associate with should be first on your list.

My dad always said that if everyone in the world loved/hated you… it means that you’re doing something wrong. It’s nature’s way of allowing you to focus on the people you love and things you want in life better.

Jun 08, 01:18PM PDT | Thread | Respond to this 1 cheer

NekoLover

lol nyaa x3

pza cheer xD

Oct 12, 05:19AM PDT | Respond to this


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