How to fall out of love
It made me
able to move on... 
"It was hard... and unpleasant... and hurt like hell. But it was worth it."
How I did it: I finally realized that he was not the guy I'd thought he was. After 3 years. To my credit, he's an actor... a good one, and he can't leave his performances on the stage. I think the only true thing he ever said to me was that he was unhappy. I still believe that. But the rest of the crap he fed me (and however many other girls he was stringing along simultaneously - and obliviously to each other!) I can see right through now. I just wish it hadn't taken so long. I quit fooling myself.
Lessons & tips: Put everything in a box - photographs, mementos, everything. Erase his phone number from your phone. Delete him from facebook and Myspace. Go one day at a time and slowly but surely, he'll start to fade away.
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