How I did it: I really thought about this, I was ready to start my life anew. But then I realized, I don't want to. How the hell could you quit a race you never started. This made me realize, I haven't lived my life. I lived the life that was expected of me. Good, Bad or In Between I gave people what they expected. So you know what, Damn a start all over, I m just going to start.
Living on my own terms, striving to achieve my ideas of success. It took me 27 years to get to this point and I will be damned if I give it up just to start all over now. No I am not where I want to be in life, but at least now I have a map.
Lessons & tips:
Resources: Books
The power of focus
7 habits of highly effective people
Manifest your destiny
jonsmom is Becoming a better women and a stronger person
Thanks for your well wish, I am truely a work in progress. I am just so happy I found this site. Everyday is a nother chance to get it right and I know if I but actions behind my faith I will surly make it to where I want to be.
idkbrblol is worrying about this Olympic's "XXX" (third, historically) attack
“7 Habits of Highly Effective People” was a very good book; I keep wondering though, was that book really a rip-off of someone else’s? (if that’s true I’d love to read the other one.)[if you have any such info, I don’t care how long it takes to find out – 50 years even]
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To your lessons and tips, I’d add:
Honor your feelings; if you’re mad, then say it – dammit! (just be balanced about it; focus on the problem & not focused on blaming the other person; & focus on the real problem – not some BS pet peave that’s bothered you since six days ago.)
And be prepared to swallow your pride if you’re wrong – that’ll go a mile farther if it’s needed.
