How I did it: We debated moving closer to east-coast family, staying where we were, and getting back to the west coast. Finally decided on the latter because of jobs, where we were in our lives (needing to stay settled *some*where). It is hard to say, "no, we're going to move further away from you even though we love you dearly" to friends and family, but we just couldn't see ourselves in those other places. In other words, we identify with this new place where we are now: it suits us and vice versa.

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Apr 08, 09:38AM PDT | 0 comments | 2 cheers