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How to reconnect with my dad
How I did it: Kept in touch over the years in small ways. Never spoke bad about him to people we have in common. Kept hope and most importantly, learned how to forgive. My brother initiated contact due to his upcoming wedding. I decided to use that as my platform and give it a shot. I took the initiative and arranged a dinner with him and his wife. I stepped up to my fears and apologized for years ago. I felt SO much better!
Lessons & tips: Forgive - I have found it to be the single most healing action in the universe. Holding hate, anger and the desire for revenge just eats away at your soul and makes you a nasty person. Don't forget we're all human and no one will ever be perfect.
Resources: Hope, patience, friends, and leaning on your family.