How I did it: It took a VERY long time. It certianly wasn't easy.
Not brooding and crying and wishing about what could have been certianly helped. Doing things like that just opens old scars that were trying to heal. No matter what you do, nothing will ever come of it. And no, he won't just spontaneously turn up on your doorstep in the rain with a bunch of flowers. It's just not going to happen. Sorry. Remember, real life isn't like the movies.
I stopped thinking about all this, as painful as it was, and soon I stopped thinknig about him.
It's been 4 months pain-free so far :)
Lessons & tips: Have a makeover. Get a new haircut. Go out with your shoulders back and your head held high, and remember you are more than what they could ever appreciate.
three years? that is a very long time lol.
But your story and tips have incouraged me and given me the boost that i need. Its been 1 year and 2 months for me and im trying to move on. but its hard. i just hope that even if it takes me 3 years as well…that in the end i do get over him.
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