How to move to NYC
How I did it: When the opportunity came up at work to relocate to our Manhattan office, I jumped at the chance. Circumstances being what they are, I had a solid six months of work to do before I could be ready to "pack up and go," so I used them to my advantage.
1. Researching the city. What did I love about this place? What was I looking for in a home? Who did I know and whose opinions did I trust?
2. Deciding on a neighborhood. Ultimately I chose to live in Brooklyn and commute to Manhattan, to put a little distance between my workaholic days and my home life -- I found a neighborhood that reflected the version of NYC that would give me the experience I craved.
3. Budget Appropriately. NYC is an expensive place to live. If I hadn't spent 6 months saving every penny, I would not have been able to move while retaining the lifestyle I'm used to (living alone, in an apartment with space to move, in a place where I feel safe, and having a bit set aside for forays to the theatre and concert halls) without seriously strapping my finances or going into debt.
4. Plan the Logistics. Sign the Lease, get the keys, pack, hire movers, arrange deliveries, plan to do a great deal of waiting for service providers to show up and do their thing.
5. Get acclimated. Take the time to get to know the neighborhood, the people, the local flavor, the fun. Pay attention to organized groups -- who are they, what are they arguing about, what's the main agenda of the area? Immerse yourself in the culture, and become part of the world.
Lessons & tips: Walk -- a lot -- before you move to the city. My legs ached for the first 6-8 days I lived here, from walking long distances on concrete. Similarly, buy good quality walking shoes and rain galoshes/boots.
Learn how to read a map and navigate the subway. The kindness of strangers is a blessing, but can't always be counted on.
Smile. A lot.
Resources: Craigs List
Nelson Aybar
MTA
Facebook, for connecting with neighbors and neighborhood groups
CENYC
