How I did it: Whenever I was feeling the need to say something bad or a secret that I wasn't supposed to do, I would stop and ask my self : Do you really have NOTHING else to discuss??? don't YOU have some interesting news / things you've done / places you've been / thoughts you've made / anything that you would prefer discuss right now and NOT gossip about someone else's life? Are you so worhtless that your life has not interest at all for everyone else, and in order to make it look interesting u are gossiping??? and even  if you don't have anything to say, really, isn't that wise to sit in silence?? too much noise is for people who have nothing to show. just noise.

Lessons & tips: upgrade yourself instead of trying to make others look bad. gossiping is just us trying to prove that WE would do better than the person we are gossiping about. But we are already doing worse.

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Apr 22, 2009, 04:47PM PDT | 2 comments | 3 cheers