How to go to Harlem
It made me 
"Went with a friend who also wanted to go"
How I did it: We went to the cathedral of St. John the Divine for a personal special occasion. Sat together, meditated, lit a candle and prayed. It was part of an entirely different goal but it got me to Harlem. This is an amazing church.
Lessons & tips: Achieving a goal with a friend is sometimes more fun and more motivating
