How I did it: asking someone out, and him actually saying yes, for me, is a matter of
trial and error. i've asked out about 4 guys and only the first one
said yes. the first time i ever did it, was on vacation on spain, a day
after having my first kiss with some other guy. i guess i was on a roll
lol. i'd seen him a few times by the pool, and we always smiled at each
other and stuff, but he never approached me. but after my first kiss
with that random guy, i felt like i was on top of the world, and got
the courage to go and talk to him. after that we hung out in the pool
for an hour, then when he was getting ready to leave, i asked if he
wanted to hang out later that day and he said yes!

however, with
the second guy, i was extremely shy about it, the way i asked him was
so awkward, which is probably why he rejected. it's definitely all
about confidence

Lessons & tips: just try it! the worst he could say is no, and yes youll be crushed, but youll get over it soon. its a 50/50 thing, if you dont ask you'll have no chance. just make sure you're confident with it though

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May 21, 04:38PM PDT | 0 comments | 2 cheers