How I did it: i realized before you love somebody else, you have to love yourself. you can't focus on just your boyfriend/girlfriend, you need to focus on yourself, do what you love, and chase your dreams. whenever i'm in a serious relationship, i find myself only caring about that person and not myself. to help me accomplish this goals, i spent a lot of time with my friends and family and that made me realized how much i missed them. i spend a lot of alone time, and starting doing the things i used to love doing such as going to shows, photography, painting, etc. and when i was with someone, it was hard to balance all those things because all i wanted to do was spend all my free time with them. i will get back into another relationship again someday, but for now i need to chase my dreams. and whenever i do get back into a relationship, i will make sure i focus on myself just as much as that other person.

Lessons & tips: make sure you love yourself before you love anyone else, chase your dreams, don't waste all your time with your boyfriend/girlfriend, balance your time.

Resources: my friends, my family, ex boyfriends.

Jun 02, 10:29AM PDT | 0 comments | 1 cheer