How I did it: How does anybody fall in love? I think it's different for different people... but I fell in love ...and fell hard.. when I was just focused on the current state of my relationship. I opened my heart and faced myself because how can I love anyone else if I don't first love myself? I suppose it happened quickly as far as relationships go.. but it feels like we've known each other for ages. We loved each other before we fell in love. It's hard to say what exactly I did to fall in love.. because it feels like it just... happened. One day I realized that she means more to me than anything I've ever had or experienced or hope to experience; my relationship with her is the most intimate, amazing relationship I've ever had with anyone. 
    Of course, everything's not always 'rainbows and butterflies' but I guess that's how life is anyway, and she makes me feel alive.

(I hope I wasn't being too cheesy...)

Lessons & tips:
falling in love...and falling hard isn't just about giving the other person a chance, it's about giving yourself a chance to love and be loved genuinely in return

Jun 02, 2009, 10:59PM PDT | 0 comments | 3 cheers