KaliTime Camaralzman is knitting and crocheting like a mad woman. Argh!
It’s really liberating. I wish you the best in it.
How I did it: For years, I had been one to people please and try to tell everyone what they wanted to hear as a coping mechanism.
One day, I just got sick of doing it and made the dedication not to do it anymore. It was hurting me and actually putting me into even more dire straits when I did tell lies [so-called little white lies], so I worked towards eliminating them by actively catching myself in the middle of them.
Eventually, I got to the point where only a few situations will have me retreating back into the shady protectiveness of a lie but, for the most part, I'm honest now.
I would love to get to the point where the only time I'd tell a lie is to save someones life.
Lessons & tips: Make an active dedication NOT TO LIE. The rest of it is your own hard work and will power. It's not easy at all but its super rewarding.
A tip could be to make something for every lie you catch yourself in. I tend to knit and, when I catch myself in a lie, I go to the needles and work something out.
Not only is it a none too subtle reminder that I did catch myself in a lie but it's a positive product made as a result of a negative situation. I then give the items away.
Resources: Knitting Help
My own willpower
KaliTime Camaralzman is knitting and crocheting like a mad woman. Argh!
It’s really liberating. I wish you the best in it.