How I did it: With the help of my friends, time and some amazing girls I met. I had enough of people telling me it doesn't really matter and even that it's kind of cool. I also got "assured" that I wont stay alone even if I decide to life my life like I want to and not just be with the people who like me (if you know what I mean... sure he's cute but he's a he) It took a long time to develop the courage and self-esteem and it also took a small amount of tears before I could accept being a part of somewhat unequal minority compared to the people around me. I also gained a lot of courage from other people who have been in the same situation with myself so thank you!

Lessons & tips: In magazines and schools people tell you to "just wait and see" if you start to feel somewhat gay, just in the hopes of it maybe being "just a phase." Generally, this is bullshit. Seriously, if you start to wonder weather you might be gay or not, you probably are :D. The sooner you accept yourself the easier you'll have it. Just be sure you have some good people around you when you want to tell it to some people who might not take it too well (like dad or something). And remember you don't have to tell anyone if you don't want to, it's your business and no one else's. (Well, maybe you're wife and kids might like to know.) Be proud and remember that life is not really all that serious, it's supposed to be fun :)

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Jun 11, 09:50AM PDT | 0 comments | 5 cheers