Its easier said than done
I know it must hv taken a lot for u to do all this.
I hope i also do it some day
All the best
How I did it: I just let go and let God! There is nothing like it. I wish I had learned this sooner. Life is too short to be consumed by things that are out of my control. Even the things that are, are not worth the stress.
Lessons & tips: Be careful though; this doesn't mean that you get rid of your standards. Living in the moment simply means enjoy life. Don't get caught up in coulda, shoulda, wouldas.
Resources: The Bible of course. Friends/family.